02.22.10
Cutting out the mental clutter
My book club meeting stressed me out this month. I hadn’t bothered to read the book, and I had deadlines for four assignments looming the next day. So, I bailed on the meeting. And it felt great. I had been so worried about getting everything done that a night out with friends from the neighborhood felt like more of a chore. It was a relief when I was able to back out of it.
That night, I realized that I need to cut back on my obligations. I’m a full-time graduate student and a part-time freelance writer, and those two activities consume huge chunks of my time, as you might imagine. To fill the few hours that aren’t dedicated to school or work, I need to choose carefully what is worthy of my attention and time. I feel awful that I have so many friends whom I haven’t seen in months, but it seems like there just aren’t enough hours in the day. I decided I needed to create more time by cutting out the things that don’t really matter.
My email inbox seemed like a good place to start that initiative. It contained upwards of 600 unread messages when I started out. Their contents ranged from months-old blog posts to recipes that I could easily find through a Google search. I deleted all but six of those. I set up my gmail account to import emails from my other accounts, so now I can check all of my messages in one place. I unsubscribed to nearly every e-newsletter I was getting and set up my RSS feed to deliver blog posts in a single email each day. Then, something amazing happened. I actually started reading (well, more like speed-reading) those blogs that had just been sitting around in my inbox before. These are just baby steps, and I have a lot more to do, but any progress is good, right?
I highly recommend cutting your mental clutter. It’s surprising how much more productive you can be.